Why? Odds are, they’ll come! From 2022 research, asked if they would go to church this Easter if a close friend or family member invited them, 42% of Aussies said YES. A further 19% of those surveyed said they were unsure. Only 3 in 10 said they would not go to an Easter service if invited! So…. Invite!!
How?
Trust. Don’t dread inviting someone. Don’t be scared. The fear we feel may be self-centred—how I’m going to look, how I’m going to feel when my friend turns me down. What if we shift the focus to the friend who could potentially reap eternal benefits, all because you took one small chance?
Pray. God is in control. Not you.
Chill. You might be the one doing the asking but it’s the Holy Spirit who softens hearts and creates faith. So whatever happens after this, don’t take it personally—and don’t take too much credit for it. You are God’s instrument, and he often gives us the privilege of taking part in leading someone else to him. But he is the one who works in that person’s heart.
Talk. It doesn’t matter what you say. Just ask your friend / family if they would come to church at Easter with you (important they know they’ll be with you). And listen to the person you invite. Be kind, compassionate and interested in them and their response. When you take the time to do these things, most people will appreciate your manner, even if they say no.
Why bother? The current mentality is “I believe what I believe, you believe what you believe, and we’ll agree to disagree.” Therefore, inviting someone to church often comes off as arrogant—one person suggesting another person is wrong or somehow lacking. Can’t have that, can we?.....Except, what if you really are the one who’s right? And your friend’s wrongness means he’ll go to hell?
Friends don’t let friends go to hell.
Jesus is the only way. It really does matter. When you invite someone to church, do it out of concern for that person’s soul, and for the glory of God.